Friday, August 15, 2025

What Ifs and Whispers

I took my first step into the building, and an overwhelming sense of dread hit me like a wave. Still, I kept walking until I reached a large golden elevator—open, waiting, like it knew I was coming. I stepped inside. There were eight buttons, but only seven had numbers. The last one was blank. Before I could decide what to press, the first button lit up on its own.

 

The doors opened to a room covered wall to wall in scribbles—messy handwriting that looked too much like mine. As I stepped closer, I realized what they were: lists , lists of Dreams I once had, plans that stayed plans, goals I never reached. Every friend I’d made since kindergarten. Every meal my mom had cooked. Every book I ever read. Every “what if.” Tears blurred my vision. This wasn’t a room—it was a memory graveyard. A reminder of everything I meant to do, everything I failed to become. I had to leave.

 

Back in the elevator, I barely had time to breathe before the next button lit up. This time, I walked into a room surrounded by glowing holograms, like a movie theatre but personal. Memories spun around me—some fast, some painfully slow. I watched myself fall down the stairs in eighth grade. Freeze up during the school debate. Get caught reading a One Direction Wattpad fanfic in class. I should’ve been humiliated, but I wasn’t. These were the moments that once kept me up at night. Now, they felt distant, almost comforting. Somehow, they brought me here.

 

The next room was quiet. Photographs hovered in mid-air—faces I’d forgotten how to remember. People I once called mine. Some left gently, others slammed the door. Some I let go of, some let go of me. The silence hurt more than noise ever could.

 

Then came the noise. Loud, chaotic, a storm of every fear I’d ever had—failure, loneliness, not being enough, being too much. My thoughts screamed over one another until I spotted something in the middle of it all: a small version of me, curled up but alive. Still breathing.

 

The next space surprised me. It looked like a celebration. A wedding, a book launch, a passport with too many stamps. Every version of me that only lived in daydreams. None of it had happened, but for a moment, I believed it still could.

 

Then mirrors. Endless mirrors, each showing a different me—childlike, bitter, smiling, breaking. I didn’t look away. These weren’t strangers. They were all parts of me I’d been avoiding. I nodded to each one.

 

The last room was still. One chair, nothing more. I sat. No noise. No spiralling thoughts. Just breath. Just quiet. Not emptiness—peace.

 

When I returned to the elevator, the final, unlabeled button glowed faintly.

 

But I wasn’t ready for that one.

 

Not yet. As the final floor opened, everything collapsed—white noise, static, then silence. I gasped awake. A doctor leaned in, eyes wide. “She’s alive,” he whispered.

Friday, December 27, 2024

The negative impact of movies leading to a rise in women exploitation

"Cinema is not the reflection of reality, it is the force that shapes our reality. "What we see on the screen often becomes what we accept as our reality. Movies that exploit women don't just stay in theatres; they shape minds and reinforce inequality."

How often do we see films where women are victims of violence, and that violence is sexualized or romanticized? An analysis (from the American Psychological Association) found that exposure to sexualized violence in films can increase aggressive behavior toward women by 20-30%. Films are not just passive reflections of society; they act as powerful tools to shape public opinion, trends, and behaviors through the characters, themes, and messages they present.

Repetition of harmful behaviors like stalking, harassment, and violence in films can normalize these actions for viewers, especially young, impressionable audiences. The glamorous portrayal of problematic behaviors gives them an aspirational quality, which can lead people to emulate these actions, believing them to be heroic or desirable.

The sheer reach of cinema in India, including Tamil films, ensures that the ideas and behaviors depicted are seen by millions, making films a key cultural force rather than a passive mirror of society. When people watch violent or aggressive behavior repeatedly in films primes the brain to react similarly when encountering similar situations in real life, increasing the likelihood of acting violently.

 to validate my argument, I’m quoting a few of many such cases where such violent behavior towards women were influenced by cinema.

In 2016, A youth was charged with an acid attack on a woman after she rejected his advances. He stated in his confession that he was influenced by similar scenes from the Tamil movie "Kadhal".

In 2015, A man tried to burn his ex-girlfriend alive after she refused to reconcile. He claimed his actions were motivated by the portrayal of revenge and possessiveness in the movie Gili.

 A recent study (by Massachusetts General Hospital) found that repeated exposure to violent and sexualized depictions of women desensitizes men to gender-based violence. Men who frequently watched such content were 50% more likely to accept and justify abusive behavior toward women, both in personal relationships and in society at large.

Movies are not just entertainment; they are cultural artifacts that shape how we view ourselves and others. As creators and consumers, it is our responsibility to demand better representation. Let’s push for stories where women are seen as complete human beings—intelligent, strong, and multifaceted. Because when we change the narrative on screen, we can begin to change it in the real world.

Thank you.

Saturday, October 7, 2023

The Importance of English in the Globalized world

                                            A WORLD THAT SPEAKS ONE LANGUAGE .

Communication is an essential ingredient of globalization.There is a need for improved communication among countries to enhance these interconnections. The English language is a powerful tool for communication and for promoting international trade and investment. It is also a tool for promoting cultural understanding and for promoting peace and stability around the world. It is the prominently used language in almost every field of study. It is used as an international language for communication in many countries so it could be used as the global language. globalization was made possible due to English. In a world with hundreds of popular languages and dialects, it's natural to need a common universal language, especially for people from different ethnicities, to communicate with each other. English is the Language of International communication, it is highly likely that if you meet someone from another country, you will both be able to speak English. It gives you an open door to the world and helps you communicate with global citizens. English is a language of international commerce, it is the language of diplomacy and it contains many a rich literary treasure; it gives us an introduction to Western thought and culture. Globalization is the process of interaction and integration among people, companies, and governments worldwide. Globalization and the English language are said to work as pull factors for one another. The English language plays a major role in the progress of Globalization. Globalization of trade and commerce, and increasing diversities of the workforce with different setup values have increased the importance of English language usage. As an international language, English has stepped widely throughout the means of communication. English can give us fast communication throughout the countries of the world. The learning English language provides us with many opportunities in home and abroad. So, the role of the English language in globalization is a very concerning demand now.

Is AI carpet bombing the job market

 From the beginning of history, humans have been known for their ingenious creations and one such creation that has changed the lives of every living thing is AI. If history has taught us anything it is that a man will always be afraid of things he can't understand but in this case we should be. AI has taken over the world for the better or the worse, millions and millions of people have lost their jobs ....... recent research has shown that almost 35% of people now use AI and this will only keep increasing as AI gets more and more power in the world and a new statistics shows that India has now lost a total of 80.089 jobs and according to world economic Forum 85 million jobs will be lost worldwide due to Ai by 2025 this number is increasing in an alarming rate it has also instilled fear in young minds as they now know that most manpower jobs can be done in a split second by ai, In the beginning, computers were only used to make the lives of humans easier but as the decision making ability of the computer has increased, the possibilities are now endless to what ai can achieve. yes in today's century, the question of whether will take over all humans still remains but no the reality is that ai needs humans just as much as we need them as they need power, maintenance, and programming which all need human interference but no the answer is that ai will not take over the humans but as humans, it is our job to get on with the fad and make ourselves aware and prepared for what is to come.

Why investing in girls is crucial?

 Investing in girls is crucial for creating a better world. It means providing equal opportunities, empowering girls to fulfill their potential, and fostering an environment where their voices are heard and respected. Investing in girls can break down gender barriers, promote equality, and cultivate a society where everyone thrives. Let's continue working towards a future where every girl has the chance to shine and make a positive impact. A world where girls are being invested in is a world where women are encouraged and empowered and are provided with the resources to succeed in life and with every step we take we are one step closer to creating a world where women will wake up every day and feel proud of being a woman and feel safe and respected and have their voices heard and opinions respected. Investing in girls is like planting seeds of empowerment and equality. It means nurturing their dreams, providing them equal opportunities, and breaking societal barriers. Investing in girls can create a world where they are celebrated, respected, and given the resources to succeed. Let's sow the seeds of change and watch as a garden of empowered women blooms, transforming our society for the better.


My trip to Telangana

 My Sampoorna trip to the villages in Mullakalapally, Telangana, was truly a journey of self-transformation. From the extreme hospitality to the simplistic lifestyle of the villagers every experience gave us a newfound sense of appreciation for things in our life that we take for granted.

The villages that we visited lacked basic amenities such as readily available water, electricity, decent roads, and a proper roof over their heads. These villages were a stark contrast to everyday comforts that we often take for granted and rarely think about how blessed we are to be able to have in our lives.

The absence of a reliable water supply has put the villages in a situation where they need to walk to distant sources just to be able to obtain clean water. Some of us were able to witness and take part in the process of obtaining water from a nearby stream, the villagers needed to dig holes to get the water and then had to wait for a few hours for the debris to sediment to get clean drinking water.  

The lack of electricity was also evident in these villages. With no access to modern amenities that we consider essential in our daily lives, the villagers have to rely on alternative lighting methods which limits their overall productivity. However, it is worth noting that in a few villages solar panels have been introduced in the past few years which has helped the local people progress forward.

The rights that women in these villages were denied were truly appalling and deeply disturbing. We encountered a woman who had completed her nursing degree and possessed the skills and passion necessary to excel in her profession. However, when we inquired about why she did not pursue her career she explained that her marriage had forced her to abandon her aspirations. Witnessing the plight of this woman, whose dreams and potential were stifled by the backward mindset of her community, left us all in shock. It was a stark reminder of the inequalities and restrictions that many women face, hindering their growth.

Toward the end of our visit to the final village, we asked the head of the village what his vision for the future was, instead of focusing on his struggles and challenges he stated that he wanted his future generation to be able to receive a proper education and to be able to progress forward as a community. This perspective shed light on his genuine commitment to the well-being and prosperity of the village and gave us a glimpse into his selfless heart. This trip has taught me so much and has helped me grow as a person, I am extremely grateful for the opportunity I was given and I will always remember the values I learned on this trip.

My trip to karigiri

 As a team of 11 volunteers accompanied by Miss. Sashi and J-team volunteers we set out on a mission to Karigiri with the blessings of our principal to help people affected by leprosy. Shanthigramam, also called the ‘village of peace’ has changed the lives of many people who’ve been disowned by their families due to leprosy and has given them a new outlook on life. This visit also gave us a lot of awareness about the disease and the fact that it is curable and not a death sentence and that it doesn't just affect people physically but also mentally. The stories they shared with us about their lives both broke and instilled a fierce flame in our hearts. Meeting the wonderful people who lived there gave us a glimpse into their struggles and pain, but most of all despite their troublesome past they were happy and content.  Along with our donations towards Shantigramam, we also designed a new and updated brochure for them painted a few of their walls, and gave the place a bit of additional color and joy. We also visited the leprosy hospital located over there and sang songs and prayed with the patients. The gratitude they had towards us was remarkable. It made us realize how truly blessed we are. Despite them being shunned by their family and being rejected by everyone they loved they were able to rise about their hardships and embark on a new journey. This visit helped us to grow as people and helped us come out of the little bubble that we were sheltered in, this has encouraged us to face new challenges and to keep up Sampoorna's motto which is "reach out to reach within".

What Ifs and Whispers

I took my first step into the building, and an overwhelming sense of dread hit me like a wave. Still, I kept walking until I reached a large...